Your wedding day is supposed to be special, but what’s special about starting your lives together in debt? Save money on the festivities so you can truly get started on wedded bliss.

Prioritize                     

Sit down with your beloved and discuss your must-haves for day. Then negotiate and adjust other less urgent budget items so the things you really want are affordable. Let’s say your partner wants to serve a curated lineup of craft beer at the reception and you want to hire your favorite local band. One solution: skip the meal and serve heavy hors d’oeuvres to save money.

Venues and timing

City or county-run facilities might fit the bill for thousands less. See what parks, zoos, museums and public gardens have to offer. Also, look beyond your choice city. Sometimes, you can find everything you want for less in a suburb or even a small town a few miles away. And if you really want a bargain, ask about off-season dates, or if there’s a discount for less traditional days like Friday or Sunday.

Food and libations

Check options from restaurants and grocery stores, and save costs with a buffet-style meal. Brunch or an appetizer-only reception are less expensive ways to feed your guests. If you do serve alcohol, stick to beer and wine instead of an open bar. Opening fees from multiple bottles of liquor can add up very quickly.

Look at DIY options

Want a photo booth? Set up a great background with a box of props and let your guests snap away with their own cameras or smart phone. Order a plain layer cake and enlist a crafty friend or relative to decorate it for you by pinning beaded ribbon or lace around the layers; fresh flowers also look great. Let the guests do some of the decorating for you. Invite them to bring their framed wedding photos and set up a table for a special display. Everyone will enjoy talking over the images and styles from past decades.

Finding ways to save on your Big Day can really add up, and help you start your new life together without breaking the bank!